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offers, sweet potatoes and fedoras
frugal friday
i. hate. budgets. for the past four months, eric and i have been on a pretty dang strict budget to allow us to pay a lot of moolah toward the student loans that built up while i was getting the degree that i'm not using (i swear i'm not bitter. maybe a little). the best thing that has resulted from this budget is my love for thrifting. i know i'm a day late and a dollar short with this frugal friday post, but i have to share. i have been wanting for some time to do a big wall piece of plates in our dining room, as we have a very large wall that i've been struggling with since we found the house (inspiration). i understand that it is supposed to take some time to round up a good collection, but when you've got a salvation army as great as the one by my office downtown, sometimes it only takes two trips to find ten that coordinate pretty dang well. i know i still have a way to go before filling the wall, but here's what i've got going on so far:
i got a fever, and the only prescription is more baby
when eric and i got married in august 2009, we decided to wait anywhere from three to five years to start trying for a baby. immediately, i had some co-workers at my old job who i swear set up a pool as to how long it would take us to conceive. i know none of them had us lasting more than a year. and then there's my mom, who will say to us that we should wait until we're ready, but will tell anyone who is willing to listen that she is ready to be a grandma now yesterday.
well, here we are 14 months later, still standing our ground. or, at least one of us is. in fact, eric is clinging to that ground. and me, well, the baby bug is taking over a bit. not enough to say, "let's go for it," but definitely enough to make me seek out cute little pinchable baby cheeks in others' blogs and daydream about the perfect nursery (fyi, i'm already 100% set if we have a girl). and then there's the fact that everyone and their brother sister around us is having babies. literally...one of my best fort wayne friends, katie, had a baby on easter, not even two months after her sister had a baby on valentines day.
so, just to remind me why we're waiting so maybe i can convince myself that i won't die if we wait another two years:
- student loans...seriously, will those things ever go away??
- i want to be able to stay home when we have our first kiddo
- we've only been together (dating included) for just under 2 1/2 years. do we really want a baby when our relationship is still a toddler?
- we already have a ton of kids. true, it would be awkward if we pinched the cheeks of our high schoolers in young life, but they're still cute and we love them just the same.
- i love sleep.
- two puppies + baby = ??!!!?
seriously...is death by cutenss possible? if so, i'm gone.
(credit to my amazing wedding photographer, mandy, for capturing this little punkin. seriously, she's wonderful, and not just because that picture of eric and i at the top of her blog is also hanging in her studio and her new wedding boutique. but seriously, it doesn't hurt her case.)